Relationship...

Each relationship is a mirror; it reveals your identity to you.

It has to be understood that love in itself, or just having a relationship with someone, is not going to give you happiness, unless you bring happiness with you.

Love needs two things; it has to be rooted in freedom and it has to know the art of trust.

Interpretations...

There is always a little truth behind
"mazak kr raha tha..." -a little emotions behind.
"mujhe koi farak nai padta..." -a little pain behind !
"its ok..." -a little need behind !
"Pata nhi..." -a lot of words behind "silence" So try 2 understand d feelings & not d words...

Love and lust
In few days I am getting married and i was disturbed, sympathetic and sorry for my friend who says "he loves me" but i don't/cant. now sometimes i also feel guilt to let it happened which i could avoid early but didn't do becoz of the intimacy got developed as i found easy going with him . now as my date is coming nearer he is doing/trying all shorts of things to prove his love and i started feeling bad for that then finally i got message "OK, u wanna marry him? GO but i want to sleep with you for one night".Now i am calm and relaxed.
but then a thought got emanated in my mind. Recognizing a true love would be more easier if our society could be open society, we could avoid Love & Lust encapsulation :)

jism ki baat nahi thi, unke dil tak jana tha
lambi doori taiy karne me, waqt to lagta hai...

keeping a friend...

When she was eleven years old, Anita went to her mother to complain.
“I can’t manage to have friends. They all stay away from me because I’m so jealous.”

Her mother was taking care of newly-born chickens, and Anita held up one of them, which immediately tried to escape.
The more the girl squeezed it in her hands, the more the chicken struggled.

Her mother said: “try holding it gently.”
Anita obeyed her. She opened her hands and the chicken stopped struggling.
She began to stroke it and the chicken cuddled up between her fingers.

“Human beings are like that too,” said her mother. “If you want to hold onto them by any means, they escape. But if you are kind to them, they will remain for ever by your side.”