Each time I try to mend a wall between you and me
A black cloud comes and rains down, it makes me wet n i feel cold, I start crying.
seeing this all a silent breeze comes and says she is still there for you
And then I move a brick to see u and the wet wall falls down.
You turn back and see me crying, you try to come but its bricks got mound.
You try to climb but you slip all down…
You got up again but by seeing you in pain I forgot my pain..
and i laugh to cheer but you get hurt thinking I laughed at you :(
You turned back again leaving me numb
and I again start mending that wall between you and me...
"Unke dekhe se, jo aa jaati hai muh par raunak
wo samjhte hain ki beemar ka haal achha hai"
"dekhiaye pate hai kusaak buton se kya faiz
ek barhman ne kaha hai ke ye saal achha hai"
"humko malum hai jannat ki haqikat lekin
dil ko khush rakhne ko ye khayal achha hai"
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Misspelled Feminism…
Few weeks back I was reading an article on Feminism As we approached International Women’s Day.
Feminism! A vague term, simply means “women are equal to men” And feminist is one who stands for it and supports equal economic, social and political rights for women, as for men.
Thanks to all from Rani of Jhansi to Shabana Azmi or Oprah Winfrey in today’s times, who are considered as feminists.
Women are the most wonderful creation by God and they are base of our society. A woman is a better conservator, better preserver and a better future. A woman’s method of working is far more inclusive and that is what the world needs today —to be more inclusive. And so I see women have greater responsibility on their shoulder for building a better society.
But no matter how much national movement and women librations activity we do unless it comes individual person and their mindset its not gonna work as we all charity should begin at home :)
When I see people or better I say parents around me, I see a prejudice and bigotries. They talk about equality but quite hesitant when it really comes to them. The parents having no son speaks more about may be because they have no choice :)
But they are not alone responsible for this our generation is also equally responsible if on the name of freedom and feminism they also started enjoying late night parties like boys, our upcoming generation is on stack and that is what we can observe when we see developed country like US or our own metropolitan cities. Example Split villa, emotional atayachar etc
Freedom or equality doesn’t mean we stop teaching them about our culture and that those women should not consider maternity, motherhood and household work as a burden. That is our privilege, a source of power as the next generation is in our domain. For a better society we need a better family and any better family needs a better mother.:) A man is just a facilitator and a follower. he he
It is tragic that all across the world young women are deliberately being brainwashed to despise marriage and motherhood. Feminism promises a career, freedom and money; but in reality, it's a dead-end of loneliness, heartache and bitter regret . . .
http://www.jesus-is-savior.com/Evils%20in%20America/Feminism/ruined_her_life.htm
"A woman has to hold and correct a Man not to follow him on the name of equality and feminism for a better and loving world…:)"
(Aap ke aane se ghar mein kitni raunak hai
Aap ko dekhe kabhi apne ghar ko dekhe hum...-Ek Rishta}
Feminism! A vague term, simply means “women are equal to men” And feminist is one who stands for it and supports equal economic, social and political rights for women, as for men.
Thanks to all from Rani of Jhansi to Shabana Azmi or Oprah Winfrey in today’s times, who are considered as feminists.
Women are the most wonderful creation by God and they are base of our society. A woman is a better conservator, better preserver and a better future. A woman’s method of working is far more inclusive and that is what the world needs today —to be more inclusive. And so I see women have greater responsibility on their shoulder for building a better society.
But no matter how much national movement and women librations activity we do unless it comes individual person and their mindset its not gonna work as we all charity should begin at home :)
When I see people or better I say parents around me, I see a prejudice and bigotries. They talk about equality but quite hesitant when it really comes to them. The parents having no son speaks more about may be because they have no choice :)
But they are not alone responsible for this our generation is also equally responsible if on the name of freedom and feminism they also started enjoying late night parties like boys, our upcoming generation is on stack and that is what we can observe when we see developed country like US or our own metropolitan cities. Example Split villa, emotional atayachar etc
Freedom or equality doesn’t mean we stop teaching them about our culture and that those women should not consider maternity, motherhood and household work as a burden. That is our privilege, a source of power as the next generation is in our domain. For a better society we need a better family and any better family needs a better mother.:) A man is just a facilitator and a follower. he he
It is tragic that all across the world young women are deliberately being brainwashed to despise marriage and motherhood. Feminism promises a career, freedom and money; but in reality, it's a dead-end of loneliness, heartache and bitter regret . . .
http://www.jesus-is-savior.com/Evils%20in%20America/Feminism/ruined_her_life.htm
"A woman has to hold and correct a Man not to follow him on the name of equality and feminism for a better and loving world…:)"
(Aap ke aane se ghar mein kitni raunak hai
Aap ko dekhe kabhi apne ghar ko dekhe hum...-Ek Rishta}
Sunday, March 13, 2011
The lure "to be noticed..."
Lying on the bed tired enough to get a sleep then suddenly a thought came into my mind to check “if anyone has cared to leave a comment on my photos?” and finally my anxiety gets better of me and I switch on my lappy and got lost in that world of Like n Comments…
Such is the lure “to be noticed” that everyone, from celebrities, reality show contestant to a regular office or college goer is filled with n trying every trick to stay in circulation.
This is the reason any kind of reality shows is flourishing like anything, it makes people popular. People are not interested in known by their quality but their effort of publicity.
Time was when being polite and reserved were highly sought after qualities like sachin or A r rahman. Cut to the present, to brazen generation, the more in the face you are better are your chances of getting noticed.
Quite often, when I go out on some trip, I see people so busy in posing themselves to get photos to update it on the facebook or orkut rather sitting for a while quietly and enjoying the beauty of nature. And then in a group of those smart kids by mistake if u say u don’t have face book account, you are outcaste and should be ashamed off… ha ha.
A wonderful incident happened recently, one friend of mine ready for marriage got a girls proposal through family and he had no problem until he asked for the facebook a/c which she didn’t have the whole perception changed so if you are not on facebook and your pictures are not on it, your marriage doesn’t exist. He he
Gone are those when you are committed to some private friends and meet sometimes and talk f ace to face and laughing on jokes and witness their facial expressions, now its just your profile that defines your character not the real you.
From posting embarrassing videos online to settling scores publicly, everyone suddenly wants to reach out even if no one’s listening.
We inherently as human beings were born voyeurs. Our acute interest in others affairs has made way to a lot of performers, the kind that loves to create a spectacle of themselves.
Entertainment for some and a cheap gimmick for the rest, in the race to be different, no one is spared. The admirers do come along, but an honest relationship becomes a distant dream.
But let’s hope that this form of self-advertising trend will slowly fade.
“Kakhi to yun hoga, tum yaad karoge hame khud k hone ke liye,
na ki jo hum the jamane ke liye...:
Such is the lure “to be noticed” that everyone, from celebrities, reality show contestant to a regular office or college goer is filled with n trying every trick to stay in circulation.
This is the reason any kind of reality shows is flourishing like anything, it makes people popular. People are not interested in known by their quality but their effort of publicity.
Time was when being polite and reserved were highly sought after qualities like sachin or A r rahman. Cut to the present, to brazen generation, the more in the face you are better are your chances of getting noticed.
Quite often, when I go out on some trip, I see people so busy in posing themselves to get photos to update it on the facebook or orkut rather sitting for a while quietly and enjoying the beauty of nature. And then in a group of those smart kids by mistake if u say u don’t have face book account, you are outcaste and should be ashamed off… ha ha.
A wonderful incident happened recently, one friend of mine ready for marriage got a girls proposal through family and he had no problem until he asked for the facebook a/c which she didn’t have the whole perception changed so if you are not on facebook and your pictures are not on it, your marriage doesn’t exist. He he
Gone are those when you are committed to some private friends and meet sometimes and talk f ace to face and laughing on jokes and witness their facial expressions, now its just your profile that defines your character not the real you.
From posting embarrassing videos online to settling scores publicly, everyone suddenly wants to reach out even if no one’s listening.
We inherently as human beings were born voyeurs. Our acute interest in others affairs has made way to a lot of performers, the kind that loves to create a spectacle of themselves.
Entertainment for some and a cheap gimmick for the rest, in the race to be different, no one is spared. The admirers do come along, but an honest relationship becomes a distant dream.
But let’s hope that this form of self-advertising trend will slowly fade.
“Kakhi to yun hoga, tum yaad karoge hame khud k hone ke liye,
na ki jo hum the jamane ke liye...:
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